Why lobe sizing is inconsistent
Lobes are the one placement where the gauge genuinely varies by who did it.
A high-street shop using a piercing gun typically works at 20G (0.8mm). A professional piercer using a needle will often choose 18G (1.0mm) or 16G (1.2mm), because a slightly thicker channel is more stable, less prone to thinning over years, and better suited to the flat back jewellery they will fit.
This is why an earring that fits one of your lobes may not fit the other, if they were done at different places years apart. It is worth measuring rather than assuming.
It is also the reason the lobe row of a size chart is a range rather than a number.
Second, third and fourth holes
Additional lobe piercings are the easiest way to build an ear stack, because they heal fast and sit in soft tissue rather than cartilage.
Spacing. Most piercers work to roughly 6mm to 8mm between holes β enough that jewellery does not touch, close enough to read as a deliberate row. Your piercer will mark it against your actual lobe, which varies a lot in size.
Order. A second hole above the first, then a third above that, is the standard progression. Some people go outward toward the edge of the lobe instead, which suits a wider lobe.
Healing. Six to eight weeks each. Because they heal so quickly, doing two at once is far more reasonable here than it is in cartilage β though you still have to sleep on them.
Sizing. Upper lobe holes are often slightly thinner tissue than the first hole, so a 6mm post that fits your first may be marginally long higher up.
| Gauge | Post length | Note | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Gun-pierced lobe | 20G (0.8mm) | 6mm | Common on high street |
| Needle-pierced lobe | 18G β 16G (1.0 β 1.2mm) | 6 β 8mm | More stable channel |
| Second / third hole | 18G β 16G | 5 β 6mm | Often slightly thinner tissue |
| Thicker lobes | 18G β 16G | 8mm | Measure rather than assume |
| Healing time | β | β | 6 β 8 weeks |
Lobe sizing
Flat backs are worth it even here
Butterfly backs are standard on lobe earrings and they are the reason most people's lobes are sore in a way they have stopped noticing.
The clasp protrudes behind the ear, so it presses into the neck and pillow when you sleep and against a phone when you use one. Its folds hold moisture, product and skin debris against the back of the piercing.
A flat back sits smooth against the skin, survives sleeping, and does not collect anything. For a placement worn continuously, it is a genuine comfort difference rather than a technicality β and it is why flat backs have moved from being a piercer's product to a mainstream one.
Stretching, and how it differs
Stretched lobes are a separate discipline with their own sizing scale, moving down through the gauge numbers β 14G, 12G, 10G, 8G and onward into millimetre sizes above that.
The two rules that matter: go one size at a time and wait for each to settle before the next, and never force. Blowouts β where the channel is pushed inside out β are almost always caused by rushing.
Belora's range covers standard lobe sizes rather than stretched sizes, so if you are stretching, a dedicated stretching supplier is the right place to look.
Common questions
What gauge is an earlobe piercing?
What length post do I need for a lobe piercing?
How far apart should second and third lobe piercings be?
How long does a lobe piercing take to heal?
Are flat backs better than butterfly backs for lobes?
Can I get two lobe piercings at once?
Sizes and healing times on this page are typical ranges, not guarantees β anatomy varies and healing differs from person to person. Your piercer has seen your piercing and we have not: check with them before changing jewellery, especially on one that is still settling.